If you’re a veteran of strip clubs, you know part of the adventure and allure of a strip club is figuring out which girl will be the most fun.
When you first walk into a new club, you look at each girl and quickly decide which ones you think are hot and which ones are your type.
For some guys, that may be enough. As long as a girl they think is hot is on their lap, they don’t really care about much else. I totally get that.
But for a lot of guys, they want a girl who gets into the action and provides something more. Maybe it’s just a better lap dance. Maybe it’s a girl who likes to break the club’s rules and do a little extra.
Whatever it is, finding that girl early and figuring out if she’ll do what you want can save a lot of time and money. There’s nothing worse than paying for a block of private dances only to find the girl is boring once she gets back there.
Take It Slow
The best piece of advice is to simply take things slow. When you’re in the club, don’t immediately get pulled in by the first girls to approach you. This is a rookie mistake and the girls who approach guys as soon as they walk in are usually the most boring dancers. We have some more rookie mistakes in this post about the 10 things to never do in a Vegas strip club.
Instead of being rushed, take your time and grab a drink then chill and watch the action. Grab a spot by the stage and pay attention to the girls walking around. You’ll start to notice which girls are straight hustlers and which ones are there to actually have a little fun and be flirty. Those are the girls you want to start making note of.
Spot The Girl That Wants To Have Fun
It’s true that most girls at the strip club are just there to make money, but that’s true of any job. But with a stripper, a few of them show up each night looking to have fun and treat it almost like their night out to party.
Trust me, inside every good-sized club, at least a few girls showed up looking to drink and have fun first and hopefully make some money. Not the other way around.
This is the attitude you’re looking for in a stripper. If they’re acting like they’re the ones having a night out, there’s a good chance she’s up for some fun and some extras if you play your cards right.
Does She Drink?
This plays into the previous point and if the girl is drinking for fun, you have a much better chance of getting some extra action during your private dance. It’s not because she’s drunk, it’s because she’s trying to have fun.
But don’t confuse this with girls who order expensive drinks to work off their stage fee or make money for the club. If the girl is just sipping her drink or orders some super-expensive drink she never touches, you might be getting played.
Always offer a drink when you first start talking to a stripper. The ones who are eager to grab a drink are almost always going to be more fun.
Find a Girl That Will Sit and Talk
Guys don’t really go to a strip club to talk, but it’s a big part of getting a girl to go for a little extra during the private dance. Sometimes, you can even grab a phone number for a little fun outside the club.
But the key here is to see if the girl sits and talks before ever asking for a private dance. If you start with a conversation before the talk of a private dance even starts, you may have a good stripper on your hands.
When you do strike up a conversation, don’t be boring and talk about your job or your life. I don’t know how many times I’ve been at a club and overheard some guy going on about his job with some stripper and the girl keeps looking over at me because she’s so bored.
Don’t be that guy!
Remember, we’re trying to find the girls who are out to party while at the strip club. Keep the talk light and funny. Talk about drinking, wild stories, or other fun topics.
If you’re not a great talker, just get the conversation started on something she will talk about, and then just ask questions to keep it going.
Nobody usually cares what a stripper thinks, so if you ask a few questions, she’ll probably be more than happy to keep talking and having fun since nobody likely ever listens to her. That doesn’t mean just sitting there and letting her blabber on, but it’s a good way to start bringing her in and getting her comfortable with you, which means a way better private dance with extras.
Overall, the key is to not always go by just looks. That doesn’t mean you go after the ugliest girl you can find, it just means a night out at a strip club is different than picking out a girlfriend or a wife.
You’re looking for a girl who will have maximum fun with the least amount of coaxing or cash thrown at her. That doesn’t mean you need to be cheap. It just means if you need to spend thousands of dollars to get some extras, you’re wasting your money. Heck, some of my best nights at strip clubs were times when I spent the least amount of money.
It’s all about spotting the right girl on the right night.
If you follow these tips, you will be guaranteed to get some extras during your next private dance…and without spending a ton of cash.
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